A Gentle Reset for Fall

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September begins the slow unwind of summer. We’ve only six weeks left until the days turn darker. In California, we battle one last heatwave while enviously listening to East Coasters talk about the crisp air they already feel. The season always seems to slip in quietly, reminding us to take stock and prepare for what’s next.

We’ve been circling around the concept of doing nothing, and fall feels like the most natural time to embrace it. This is the season to turn away from screens, let your hands find rhythm in simple acts: baking, sketching, arranging, simmering. It’s a season for coziness, for lingering at the table, for evenings that unfold slowly in familiar rooms.

How to prepare, reset, and set yourself in the right frame of mind for the months ahead? A handful of small rituals can mark the transition. Here are a few simple ways of to signal to yourself that the pace has shifted.

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1. Welcome the Shorter Days with Candles

The simplest way to invite the season in is to strike a match at dusk. While there are plenty of seasonally scented options that can conjure fall, I always return to the elegance of a classic tapered candle. For me, the best way to cope with shorter days is to romanticize the evening. The way light enters a space makes all the difference. Lighting a candle is a small ritual that helps me transition from the outside world into the cozy rhythm of my own. Try it yourself: go analog, pause, and notice how the mood shifts when you set the tone with candlelight.

Close-up of hands lighting a glass bong at the breakfast table beside pancakes, part of a slow morning fall ritual.

2. Try a New Recipe

The rhythm of cooking offers a break from the mental load of the day. I like to pull out one of the beautiful cookbooks that usually sit gathering dust on my shelf and try something I have never made before. It does not have to be elaborate, just different enough to feel exciting. I have found that making one night a week my “new recipe night” gives me something to look forward to in the middle of the week. If you have been holding onto a cookbook or a saved recipe, now is the season to crack it open.

Glass bong with orange base on a table during a Settlers of Catan board game night, casual cozy hang with friends.

3. Invite a Friend Over for a Laid-Back Hang

Community does not require going out. As the days get darker, I have found that hosting, even in the simplest way, does wonders for my mental health. We have lost the art of casual gathering, the kind that does not require fancy menus or spotless apartments. Start small: invite a friend for a pot of soup, a watch party, or simply to share the meal from that new recipe you have tried. Normalize having people over “just because.” It is often the most nourishing kind of connection.

Person in bright yellow vest walking by the water on a sunny fall day, screen-free reset with nature and movement.

4. Walk Without Your Phone

When the days shorten, I make a point to step outside while there is still light. Even a fifteen-minute walk during lunch can be surprisingly restorative. Leave your phone at home and pay attention to the season: the dry scent in the air, the crunch of leaves underfoot, the way the light slants differently in September. It is a way to move your body, and it is also a reminder to notice, which is its own kind of renewal.

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5. Make Something

Some people dismiss them as “old lady crafts,” but I find relief in the process of making. Fall feels like the perfect season to pick up a new hobby or return to an old one: mending, knitting, puzzles, baking, or even rearranging a corner of the house. These small acts regulate the nervous system and pull you back into your body. It is not about perfection. It is about the process, the problem-solving, and the satisfaction of seeing something take shape.

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6. Revisit Your Space

I firmly believe a room should be rearranged at least twice a year. When fall arrives, I welcome it by shifting my home. My favorite chair gets moved closer to natural light, lighter blankets are swapped for heavier knits, and big pieces of furniture are reoriented. Even small adjustments bring in fresh energy. Living in California, where the seasons are subtle, this practice helps me create my own sense of seasonal change, a reset for both my home and my mind.

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7. Read, Journal, or Sketch

Fall gives us permission to stay in. I like to lean into that by reading something seasonal. A gothic novel in October is hard to beat, especially with a candle flickering nearby. If you are not much of a reader, try journaling or sketching instead. There is no performance to it. It is about checking in with yourself and channeling your focus into something that is not a screen. These quiet practices create space for reflection, and in their own way, they anchor you to the season.

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Fall reminds us to slow down, and create space. Space for dinners that stretch into the evening, for projects that take their time, for noticing the way the air spells differently in September than it did in July. These Small gestures aren’t about productivity or performance; they’re about presence.

As we move into the darker months, let this be the season you give yourself permission to slow down. To trade screens for candlelight, busyness for simmering pots, distraction for simple rituals that ground you. Doing nothing, it turns out, is often the most essential work of al